Ooops!
Our preacher found out that the surgery he was planning to have in July is scheduled for 29 July...which is only a few days before our wedding on 2 August. As he is an older gentleman and will potentially require some extended recovery time, he's bowing out of the wedding. I'm disappointed because he was my pastor at the church I attended during my middle school / early high school years, so he was very fundamental in shaping my ideas -- and he answered so many of my endless questions during those years! He was sort of a grandfather figure to me at that time. Many people have also told me that he is a great counselor, so I was looking forward to John and I working with him.
Which means we no longer have a preacher... kind of an important element if you ask me!
So, it's time to ask a few more possibilities. It's a good thing that my family has spent significant time in several different PCA churches and therefore know -- and LIKE -- quite a few PCA pastors, because the wedding pastor has to be in that denomination for us to use the church that we want for our wedding (the church where I was born and baptized and attended until middle school). I think it would be cool for my uncle to do the service, but unfortunately he's ordained in a different denomination.
In other wedding news (not that anyone cares, but it makes me feel like something has been accomplished!):
Date - Got it.
Time - Don't got it. Evening, but not sure of the time yet.
Venues - Reception location booked. In the middle of the application process to use the church, but it looks promising (www.secondpca.org).
Caterer - Comes with the location.
Preacher - None. Nada.
Cake - I've booked a cake lady and will pick up samples of the cake flavors next week. I also have a pre-scheduled consultation with another cake lady on Monday evening, but I may cancel it.
Photos - Our first choice photographer is unavailable. Time to start emailing a few others that friends have recommended.
Reception decor - My mom and I purchased some very cool (very cheap!) mosaic glass type candle globes to use on the tables. I think playing with light will be neat since it's a rather dark venue (low ceiling, exposed brick walls). I need to look into some more interesting table linens than just the standard black or white.
Bridal party - Still no final decision. Wavering over some tough choices because I have quite a few girlfriends that I love and admire and want involved, but it needs to be a small wedding party (financially and due to the small size of our wedding overall).
Attire - My mom and I did some in-town dress-hunting last night. Looks like we may head to Atlanta this weekend and make a final decision on my dress. Then I'll move on to bridesmaid dresses (Psssst: I'm considering some from Target!)
Guest list - A terrible and awful thing.
Wedding website - No progress, but I've looked at various samples online.
Save the dates/ Invitations - Same as above.
Ceremony music - Come to think of it, I still haven't asked my brother (voice, classical guitar) or my cousin (voice, piano) about performing. I also need to email my old Celtic harp instructor to see if he'd play.
Reception music - My first choice (a group of cool people from my church that used to provide fun music for our annual church picnics and events) hasn't practiced together in about a year, so they declined. I've emailed one professional band and plan to email another today. Waiting to hear prices...we will likely end up with a DJ instead, but it doesn't hurt to do some research first!
2 comments:
whoa...I feel dizzy
I love you! You are the greatest financee I could ever ask for. You are really doing a great job of planning even if it hasn't all gone as planned.
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